Monday, March 31, 2008

Cheers!!!

Another weekend gone and still no baby. As I last reported.... he is huge. This is weighing heavy on my mind along with the fact that my doc won't listen to my concerns..... Everything that has happened so far has been like pulling teeth. Last week he didn't believe that there was any way that I could be carrying such a large baby with my belly being the size it was. After a near breakdown and a lot of convincing, he finally did an ultrasound and found that my worries were valid. But, as I prepare to go into the doc at 3 today, I know it is going to be the same old story. He won't do anything and will just blow off what I say. So, here is CHEERS to docs that don't listen to their patients..... Another reason Casper is just sooooooo wonderful. After going through a week of very potent contractions (big enough to make me turn tomato red and sweat so that it was visible to any person that saw me), I have given up on the idea that I will ever go into labor on my own. They get to be about 10 minutes apart and very intense before, BAM.... they are gone. When I finally do go into labor, this baby isn't going to fit. Jason barely did and at this point.... this one is larger, the question is, how much larger. So, I know I am looking at a c-section performed by a doc that will not listen to his patients. The fun never ends. Sheena and her mom had a chance to see me in my finest moments of contractions...... I think it freaked them out a little. They were sure that I was going into labor, but no such luck. So, it isn't just Colin and I that are imagining this. Enough of the whining.................... some things in life aren't fair and that is how it is. I just hope in the end that the baby is ok. I don't want him to get stuck and have problems for the rest of his life because a doc didn't listen. That is my biggest fear at this point. Oh and as a side note..... Those people that say enjoy those last few weeks of feeling the baby move............. That is a load honkey!!!! It doesn't feel good, it hurts, and is gross to top it off. No, I am not a lover of the whole pregnancy thing, but when you are so big that it feels as though your skin is going to split, a moving baby isn't going to add to the joy. I wish people would stop saying that I should enjoy feeling the baby move. I would much rather be holding him and feeling him move in my arms.......... hopefully sooner than later.

But, despite the miserable contractions all weekend, we did our best to just enjoy our time. Colin was so pleased to find out that he had all 4 of the final four picked (It looks like he has the office pool in the bag). Jason, Colin and I spent the time watching basketball...... amazing games by the way...... and if you watch a game, you must play it in our house. So we played basketball and even some baseball. It was pretty fun. Jason is a better athlete than Colin and I ever were. He has instincts. I don't know if he will play sports in the future, but he will have the talent if that is what he wishes to do. Heck, I prove that you don't even need talent to enjoy sports. He will be good if he plays. I also went to a baby shower for Sheena's sister in law. It was nice to see everyone and thank you Sheena and Scott for the baby clothes and the teether.... they are really cute. Also thanks for helping me get my mind off of everything..... I needed that.

So, as the weekend ends and the work week is beginning I just wanted to say hi and give another update. I apologize for not posting as much as I used to and for being negative, but I will get back into the swing of things soon. I will try to stay upbeat and have a good outlook on things......... it is just hard right now. If there is any news after my appointment today I will go ahead and post. If not........ you know it is the same old stuff. Now on to playing a fun game of dinosaurs riding cars..... I get to be the stegosaurus today. Have a good week and I will talk to you soon.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

A BIG Weekend!!!

This weekend was pretty special for us since Jason was old enough to have an extra fun Easter. We had been talking about the Easter Bunny coming to visit for quite some time. I thought he kind of understood, but I couldn't have guessed that he would have taken to it quite so well.



Friday we had a blast. Colin had the day off and we took the chance to dye eggs (very messy).





The bounty!!!



Passing the dino egg.


Plop!!!! Crack!!!!! (gentle isn't a word in Jason's vocabulary... all of the eggs were cracked by the end of this adventure)


Cheese!!!!! or should I say EGGS!!!!!

We also went for a walk and when we returned there was a package for Jason and his little brother. Thank you Maggie. When we opened it, Jason was soooooooooooooo excited to see dinosaurs and something to color with. There was also a little container of these little colored pill looking things that dye bath water.... perfect for Easter. Jason didn't know what the little color pills were, YET. But, he was so pumped about the dinos that I thought the poor kid was going to lose it. After he played with the dinos for a while, it was on to coloring, coloring, coloring!!! It couldn't have been more fun. Also by having more dinos around, it makes playing them much more interesting. I don't always have to be the bracheosaurus now. Thank goodness. Plus there are trees and bushes to hide behind. It was a complete dino package. That night Jason took a bath in blue water. How cool is that? I bet not many kids get to do that very often. He said it was pretty cool. There was also some clothes, little stuffed animal that looks just like Moe did when she was a puppy, and a teether for the new little man. THANK YOU MAGGIE!!!!! You didn't have to do that, but I want you to know that everything was a hit. We have been playing, coloring, and enjoying colored bath water since that package showed up.




Look at my new dino!!!!



Coloring!!!


I can even color with these.


Swimming in the big blue.


Saturday we did some cleaning (I can't do a lot of it now, so Colin stepped up and did most of the cleaning). We also played and walked some more. It is obvious that we will soon be a family of 4 so we are taking advantage of every second we have before things get crazy. But I have to say we are ready.


Sunday was the big day. THE EASTER BUNNY CAME!!!!! Jason was very excited. He picked up on the finding the eggs thing really fast and didn't want it to come to an end. After rehiding the eggs 4 or more times I started breakfast (white sauce). It was so much fun for all of us. The rest of the day was spent relaxing, playing and walking.




Jason's Easter basket.... pretty nice of the Easter bunny.




Hunting for eggs.


It was sad to see the weekend come to an end, but yesterday we had a doc appt. that we were very anxious for. It was a standard checkup until he started to measure the baby on the ultrasound............. we were right........... he is HUGE!!!!!!! As of yesterday he was already measuring 7lb 14oz. To put this into prospective, the upped my projected due date to April 2nd from April 13th. So, if I don't go into labor before next Monday, he is going to do one more ultrasound to check the baby's size and then we will discuss what day he will induce. But, the fact that I have been have contractions a lot!!!!!! I mean a lot!!!!! might mean that this little guy might come on his own this week. If not it is likelly that he will grow nearly 1 pound by next Monday which puts him at nearly 9 pounds. Another big boy for us. As I have said so many times, WE ARE READY!!!!! So, I will continue to get my walk on and eat spicey foods and wait. This is a true test of patients and I have realized, I don't have any.


This morning I woke up to Jason and Colin welcoming the baseball season by watching the Red Sox. It is their favorite team, so there is no better way to enter the baseball season in our house, unless they were at a game in person. So, Jason and I will spend the day playing basketball and baseball and possibly some dinosaurs too.


I hope all of you had a wonderful Easter weekend and that the Easter bunny brought you a bounty like Jason recieved. We will keep you informed on the happenings around here. But, this week I am going to focus on my walking............ Keeping our fingers crossed that we will be meeting this baby very soon. Take care everyone and have a great week.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Happy Easter!!

I looked outside this morning and saw something that was so fitting for the time of year. Here it is.








I do believe this is the first bunny meeting I have ever witnessed. I think they must be planning some important Easter business because it lasted for about 15 minutes. Nothing new here, just wanted to wish all of you a happy Easter. Have a great weekend...........

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

The light

Yesterday I went back to the doc for one of my weekly checkups and got some promising news. First of all Sunday...... Yes 5 days........ this baby is considered full term. WOOOOOOO!!!!!!HOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That deserves a happy dance around here. Also next Monday we will have an ultrasound and check to see how close we are. Signs are pointing to a new Moody baby next week!!!! We are keeping our fingers crossed. But the doc sounded like he will bring this to an end soon. Then we will have a new beginning as a family of 4 humans and 2 dogs....... now that is a full house.

Biker boy showing off his muscles.......... He is kind of super hero around our house, I wonder what his true identity is.



Wild man is rocking on through these last days as an only child. Yesterday he played biker boy. With a blankie (I don't think real bikers say the word blankie) wrapped around his head he went around showing off his huge muscles. That little man is quite tough. I know I keep on saying that he is growing up, but today he is officially out of his 2T jammies and into 3T's. He wears 3T pants (fills them out well too) and 4T shirts. I can't believe how fast he is growing. It is hard to believe that he turned 2 just before the new year and now he is as big as a lot of 3 and 4 year old kids. The big biker boy and I are going to get our play on for the next few days and enjoy this time with just the two of us. It will be a blast. There is also a buzz around here that Friday we get to dye eggs and that there is this bunny that comes around on Easter and hides the eggs. I don't know if it is true, but I guess we will find out very soon. Have a wonderful week everyone and take care............





one last note: Cody mentioned that he had his one year anniversary of blogging, Congrats!!! That is a huge milestone. We will be having our one year here in the next couple of days. I can't believe that time passes so fast and that so much can change in that short time. Thanks for the suggestion of blogging Maggie and Cody. I really enjoy it and love to stay in touch with everyone. Happy One Year to all of you!!!!!

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Hello month #9!!!



Grandma Denise with her hands full taking the dogs and Jason out for a walk...... can anyone say mega exercise regiment?

It has been a long road, with many bumps, but we are almost there. The finish line is in sight. I know I said that I would post pics of my deformed neck, but after talking with Maggie I decided that no one wants to see me like that. Just take Colin's word for it, it wasn't pretty.

The cookie is soooooooooooo good!!!



I do appologize for taking so long to post. Things have been a little crazy. If we aren't going to the doc for some reason or another, we are trying to get something else done. Jason has been such a great helper. We have had one hurdle with him.......... the MINE stage has begun. I have to say, it is horrible when almost every word out of his mouth is MINE or THAT MINE. We will be very happy when this stage is over. If you do happen to get around Jason it is fun to tell him No, it's mine. He throws the hugest fit...... I think it is funny. Giving him a taste of his own medicine...... works every time.



For those of you wondering how big I really am...............

Not much is new here except the fact that I am growing very fast now. For the record, I am now the same size I was when I had Jason. To recap, he was 8lb 5oz and had the shoulders and belly of a 10+ pounder. It wasn't pretty. Hopefully my doc will listen to me tomorrow afternoon when I share my worries with him on the size thing. But, for now, the baby is healthy and strong. We all just can't wait to meet him. Jason isn't sure what that involves, but the idea of sharing is much better than the reality I am sure. Although he says that he can't wait to meet brother right now, he will be in shock when the little bug comes home with us. It will be interesting to say the least.



Colin is doing well. I think he is as ready for the inevitable as I am. He tries to put on a calm face, but he is on his toes under it all. At this point the bags are packed and everything is prepped for another member of this fam.



Despite the fact that we are basically waiting, we have accomplished a few things. Our yard is raked and ready for seed and fertilizer. Raking is great exercise and made me feel so good (I am not being a smart ass either..... it is true). You might find is difficult to picture a 9 month pregnant woman out raking, but it isn't as goofy looking as you would think. Colin also finished the floor in our bathroom. It looks much better and finally feels clean.



Jason has been playing dinosaurs and trucks every day. He really gets mad when the dinos don't fit on his little matchbox cars...... go figure. It helps him keep busy and it is something I can play too. I do have to tell all of you that I am very sick of playing that game though........ Feel free to come on over to our house and play with him. Just a warning though, dinosaurs and cars get old fast (5 hours usually is my cut off point). Colin is sick of them and he has only been playing them for the weekend. The fun never ends here.



Well now on to walking, and waiting. I hope all of you are doing well. I don't know how often I will be posting between now and B-day, but I will do my best. Take care and enjoy.............

Sunday, March 9, 2008

The worst experience EVER!!!!!!!

I left you all with the same open ended story that we had on Friday morning. We had high hopes for something to get better, but we couldn't have predicted what was about to happen. My mom got here just after 9 in the morning to take care of Jason so that I could rest and try to recover from whatever it was that was causing my neck swelling. You see, even though Jason had this terrible ear infection, he seemed fine. Not once did he show any signs of being sick. If he hadn't told me that his ears were boo boos, I would have never even thought to bring him in to the doc. So, he was mad that I was so sick and couldn't play. When my mom showed up, it was a huge relief for the little man.

Jason and mom spent the rest of the morning doing things while I rested and napped. Then after lunch I layed down for a nap. When I woke up, I felt much worse. When I went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror, I thought I was imagining things. My neck couldn't be that big. I walked into the kitchen and as soon as mom saw me, she said, We need to go to the ER. So, we quickly packed everything up, woke up Wild Man and headed out. I called Colin, who was out in the field (still a little sick, but much better) and we went up to check in. This was just before 3 in the afternoon. They sent me upstairs (even though there was a possibility I had the mumps) to labor and delivery to get the baby checked. After 30 minutes of checking the baby... who was in excellent condition by the way.... we went back downstairs. I checked in at exactly 3:38. This is easy to remember since I had to write it down on one of the forms. Mom, Jason and I waited for over an hour before Colin made it back to town, but there was no chance of him missing anything. We told mom that her and Jason could head back to the house because we didn't know how long this would take. It was a good thing. With each minute that passed my neck got bigger. It was getting difficult to breath and was beyond painful. I thought it was going to split open or that I wasn't going to be able to breath anymore. It was so big that I could no longer drink or eat. At about 7 I started to believe from the bottom of my heart that I was going to die. Even if they did get me in, I was sure that they wouldn't know what to do to make me better. Every time I went to sleep I woke up with my neck much larger, so I was sure that the next time I closed my eyes, it would be the last time I did so. Needless to say...... things weren't good. At 7:45 they finally brought me back to a room. This is one of those hospitals that you hear about people that wait in the waiting room for 13 hours and die because they didn't get the help they needed.

When I got back to a room a nurse had me put on a gown and took my vitals.... It wasn't good. My blood preasure was really high and my pulse was around 140. Thank goodness my blood oxygen level was still ok. Then the doc came in and told me from the get go... we are going to find out was is causing this, I won't send you home without answers and some antibiotics. Then it was time for them to take more blood and at the same time they put me on IV fluids. It turns out I was very dehydrated. We were back there for hours. After 3 liters of fluid were put into me, the results were in. I had an infection in my lymphnodes. It was a really bad one. So, they gave me a bag of antibiotics through the IV and I have to say, I was relieved to have some kind of answer. It was 10:30 and even though Colin and I were very tired, I was begining to feel better from the fluids and we were both just so happy that something was getting done. My neck was still huge. We didn't take any pics at that point...... even though we should have.... It was the last thing on our minds though. Once the antibiotic was in me, we were getting released (this was around 11:30 pm). The nurse and doctor did some last checks of my vitals and of the baby, who was wild as ever, and they gave me a few instructions. Even though we live less than 5 minutes from the hospital, they warned me that if it gets any bigger and there was even a little doubt that I could get to the hospital in a very short period of time that I needed to call 911. I really can't descibe how big my neck was in a way that is even a little believable. It was very frightening. Colin and I finally got home around midnight. I hadn't eaten since 11:30am and was very hungry. Colin was tired and hungry too. So, mom had made soup for us and left it on the stove. After a small bite, I closed my eyes still questioning if it would be the last time I saw my family.

At 5:30 in the morning (I was so dehydrated I didn't even get up to go potty after all of those fluids) I got up to take some Tylenol for the pain and when I looked in the mirror..... I was in shock. The swelling had went down. Mom saw me and thought I looked worse, but from the time that I left the hospital, there was no comparison. I went back to bed and when I woke up at 8, it was even better. I have to say that it was still bigger than the pictures. Things have just gotten better since. My neck is near where it was in the pictures now and I have to say I have never been so thankful to be alive. I really thought I wasn't going to make it. It is a sad reality, but in the end things are working out. Colin and I have rested for the rest of this weekend and we are feeling so much better. Life is an amazing thing that is so very precious and I can tell you that I couldn't be more thankful for everything that I have. Thank you all for your positive thoughts and prayers, because I believe that has helped so very much. It has been a tough go of it, but I feel like things are really getting better now. I can see my jaw line and I can eat and drink. LIFE IS WONDERFUL!!!!!! Thank you mom for helping out so much. We couldn't have made it through the weekend without your help. THANK YOU!!!!! Now back to regular life.

Tomorrow I have another doctors appointment so I will have more info on the newest Moody Man in the evening. I hope all of you are doing well. Take care................ OK.... Sorry no pics, they won't post. I will try again later. Have a great day.

Friday, March 7, 2008

Are you kidding me?

Well, new developements early this morning. I woke up about 4 and both sides of my neck we very swollen and it wasn't easy to breath and it was extremely painful to top it off (my neck feels like it is going to split). So, we packed up and went to the ER. When we got there we had to go to labor and delivery to check the baby before they would treat me in the ER. After seeing the baby was ok, we went back downstairs, got admitted and went to my room. Then I started to get a bunch of people looking at me. It was really strange. They were having nurses from other areas of the hospital come and look at me. Then after a long wait, the doc came back and told me I might have the mumps. Evidently I was like the circus freak of the hospital. Everyone wanted to look at my neck and throat because they will most likely never see anything like it again in their careers. After a long wait and hearing from an infectious disease specialist and the doctor calling the Mayo Clinic, they decided to take some blood and send it in to the Mayo Clinic for testing. There are two possibilities: 1) Mumps which we will know Monday or Tuesday when I get my results or 2) a bacterial infection in my glands that can be treated with antibiotics, but they can't give them to me until the results from the blood test come in. The antibiotics would make the mumps worse. So, here we are, waiting, with nothing but tylenol to ease the pain. My mom is coming down and should be here about 9 this morning to help with Jason so that I can sleep. Just wanted to give you the update. I really don't think it is mumps since I don't even have a clue how I could have been exposed to it. But, It looks like things aren't going to get better until next week. Thank goodness mom is coming, because Colin needs to be at work and I don't think I can do the mom thing all that well right now. I hope all of you are doing well. Can't wait for updates. I will post some pics of my deformed neck when I feel better. Colin did take pics though. For now I am going to catch some zzzz's and rest. Take care and I will have updates as they come in.

Thursday, March 6, 2008

WOW!!!

Just when you think that being positive all of the time is going to pay off, sometimes you feel like you have had the wind knocked out of you. I mentioned that Jason and I were sick. We got right into the docs on Monday to be sure that we were OK. So, I had bronchitis and Jason had a major double ear infection with blisters on his ear drums. The poor kid shouldn't have been able to function. But there was me, a wreck. Even after I was told that I wasn't contagious and that Jason was going to be fine, I couldn't help but disinfect everything around my house. The last thing I wanted to do was get Colin sick too. So much for that idea. It appears as though Colin is at least coming down with a head cold, if it isn't something worse. My sickness has gotten worse, which I didn't think was possible. This morning I woke up with one of my glands in my neck so swollen that it looked like I had a goiter (Colin's words). I have never seen anything like it. Now the swelling has went down a little, but it isn't pretty. If you saw me, you would call me no neck. Colin is fighting the sick thing and trying to work as usual. Jason is a mess because I am even more boring than I was before I got sick. He spent the morning screaming....... I mean really screaming. But, now I just hope we really are on the mend. Having two kids is a scary thought when you think about those times when all four of us will be sick, and I know it will happen. I just hope that we will live closer to family and friends soon so that when we are so sick and need a little help..... you know, when you can barely take care of yourself anymore and the task of taking care of sick children is so far out of the realm of reality that you don't want to do. So, in the end you end up doing the best you can, which isn't enough to make any of you better, you just maintain. Thank goodness this is something that doesn't happen very often. I have to say, I have never felt so very sick. Hopefully this doesn't happen again. Now we are just going to try to get better. The key word is TRY. People always say all you can do is try your best. So, here goes. I will call the doc again to see what is up with my unusually huge gland and hopefully Jason will sleep..... and sleep...... and sleep some more. He is in a really bad mood today. Take care everyone and stay healthy. I am keeping my fingers crossed that the next time I write, we will have great news of health and happiness. I will keep all of you updated. Till next time.....................

Monday, March 3, 2008

MORE MORE MORE........

Hi again!!!! I am back. I have been promising pictures of some of our progress on the house for the last couple of weeks, and I am finally producing. But, there aren't just pictures of the bathrooms, which look much better, but I have also included some pictures of Jason's new storage bed (It is really a nice addtion to his room) and pictures of the new baby's dresser. And to make this post even better I added the pictures of the cakes that the Chocolatier made.

My mom came down last Wednesday for a meeting and took Jason home with her on Thursday. So, Colin I took advantage of not having a little on around for a night and went out to a nice Italian dinner. Then when we got home I went to sleep..... very early. I was out by 8:15. I felt so rested the next morning.

Friday, Colin left work early to pick Jason up in Thermopolis. I took advantage of my time alone by getting the house cleaned. There are so many things that are so difficult to get done with my little helper at my side. But, I got most of them finished. It was a wonderful way to keep busy since our house is lonely without wild man by my side. It is a sad day without a kiddo telling me jokes and running all over making a bigger mess than I can clean up. When they pulled up to the house at 7 that evening I couldn't have been happier.

The next morning we woke up to a sick Jason and I was sick too. It was the beginings of being sick, but we were both in denial. Colin's parents came into town that morning and the projects began. After lunch we went to the store to pick up a dresser for the new baby and a storage bed for Jason. When we got home Jay and Colin got busy and put the two new pieces of furniture together. I have to mention that they also had to move some huge furniture just to make room for the new items too. It wasn't an easy task and we are so thankful for the help. Connie and Jason played, snuggled and read books. They really had a great time. By the time Jay and Connie left Jason had a really high fever and was taking a turn for the worse. The little man wasn't feeling well at all. I had started to cough and my chest felt like it was on fire. We knew that our weekend of fun was just begining.

Since Colin was the only one that wasn't sick, he had his hands full. He took care of Jason while I coughed and coughed and coughed... well, you get the point. Motrin helped bring down Wild Man's fever and today he is just stuffy. We have been resting and hoping that we will all be healthy soon. I am going to call the doc today and see what I can do for this so that I can nip it in the bud. So, once again, we are on our road to recovery.

We might be sick, but we are so pleased to say that we are getting more and more prepared for the new little man with each passing day. Even with the crazy things that try to trip up our plans like the little bouts of sickness, we are checking things off of our list. It doesn't matter how sick or tired we get, that is a great feeling. I hope all of you had a wondeful weekend. Take care of yourselves, stay healthy and enjoy........................

The chocolate cake............... I really don't have to tell you how good this one was.... YUMMY!!!

The cheesecake. If you like cheesecake this is the best you will ever try and if you don't, try it and you might change your mind.
The master bathroom (the floor still isn't complete):


Notice the new light fixture..... Colin is turning into quite the handy man.

The public restroom:




Jason's new bed complete with a bookcase on the headboard....... He loves it. It is so comfy and he is so happy to have his books so close.



The youngest Moody Man's dresser. We even have the diapers ready to go. I can't believe how small they are. Only a few more weeks. YIPPY!!!!

Have a great week everyone!!!!